I got pile 2 as well. It struck me hard. I had meditated before reading, and the thought had come up, that it's ok to let people discover my qualities, rather than advertising them. And now I feel seen and being told, it's the self-care I'm missing, the hardest thing for me to do.
The many readings I enjoyed recently all told me, everything's fine, go ahead, it will come out great, and it did.
And now, at the right moment in my life, I am given such a chunk to chew on. Thanks a lot.