Oliver Utzt
1 min readJul 27, 2021

The story of my life. I still struggle with the fact I don’t even know, what it means to make a move. The logical conclusion of women not wanting to be approached is them approaching the men they like. Since they don’t, I’m probably ugly and not likeable. But why tell me they had a crush on me decades later, while I remember them screwing some abusive guy in holiday camp? Was it feminism, or is it more like nature making sure guys like me don’t procreate? Is it respect for women or is it fear of embarrassment guys like me don’t know what to do when we’re alone with a woman? Or is it simply bad luck nobody ever told us? Make a move, go for it, get it on! Um – most guys wouldn’t know what to do if I gave them a guitar and told them to play an e min7 add4 (it’s strumming all strings without fretting a note). Just a week ago I had the woman I have a crush on at my place. Maybe I should have made a move, because something is off between us since then. I just don’t know what it means.

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Oliver Utzt
Oliver Utzt

Written by Oliver Utzt

Lifelong beginner and amateur, drawing from multiple sources such as music, martial arts, spirituality, left wing ideas, psychotherapy, zen, tarot, yoga, weed

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